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mckeener
09-06-2007, 06:10 AM
I am finally catching my breath from the new suprise I was thrown over the weekend.

For almost two years the mother of my two kept telling me that her ex boyfriend the foather of the baby girl was violent. He had domestic violence charges against him. Child abuse charges concerning the baby. He was a danger to the baby. A direct threat and she could not let him know where she was for the safty of the child.

I could not get any information about this man to give to the child support.

We are going to court for the third time next week. Mom hasn't bothered to show up the first two times. This time it states in big bold letters that a no show is an automatic default and decissions will be made about and for her children without her.

So..... she picks up the phone and contacts the father of the baby girl.
Pours out her tale of woe, including how we have kidnnapped her darling baby and using my husband's job to keep the children away from her.

See the father of this child never knew where his child was and never signed the temporary custody paper.

Mom figured that she will get the father all worked up, he will come down from georgia and demand the baby. There is no papers saying he can't. He takes the baby back to georgia. Mom then goes to georgia where he has several arrests and since there will be no papers walk into his home with the birth certificate and get the child back.


I just hope that this court date will finally give me the papers that put the children in my custody.

oh did I mention that the public housing has started proceedings to evict her from her appartment. She sort of forgot to mention that to me and the father of the two year old baby girl. She also failed to mention that she is pregnant again with another baby girl due right around thanks giving.

Admin
09-06-2007, 07:50 PM
Sounds like good advice Nanniedearest, from reading your posts mckeener you have been having an awful time, I hope some things start to change and go your, or rather, the kids best interest, way. Would everyone here please concert wishes and prayers for mckeener to get final custody, maybe together we can have some influence!

Admin!

Grandma_Bananarama
09-07-2007, 12:00 AM
Have you spoken with the baby's father and felt him out where he stands? Maybe as far as he's concerned it is a non-issue and he is fine with where his daughter is. Why worry about a battle that may not even exist? Obviously, their relationship is not the greatest. Use that to your advantage. A wise woman told me, "Your enemy's enemy is your best friend". Might be something to think about.

Grandma_Bananarama
09-07-2007, 04:48 PM
My thoughts exactly. THere seems to be a recurring theme regarding non custodial parents and their ability to spread their version of the truth. I'm not sure if it is all the drug addiction at fault either. They all seem to be master manipulators. There is an inherent flaw with their inability to see the truth about themselves. It must be very painful for them to look in the mirror.